“There you go Kell you can become a doctor and buy us that house”, or “Hey their probably a lawyer see…you can become a lawyer or a doctor and make a lot of money and take care of us”. Looking back I see that I was just a free ride…a meal ticket.
I grew up with this mindset that my only job in this world is to take care my parents…my mom couldn’t take care of me so of course it was my job to care for her. I was born to a mother and a father who were in no way ready, capable, or equipped to take care of themselves let alone two children…add in my step-father and we had 3 ill equipped and incapable of being parents that children needed.
My sperm donor of a biological father